by teepoo
There’s certain songs that are so simple and yet are so moving. I decided to bring in some under appreciated songs to this blog and a look at how deep they can be. This one in particular makes me cry.

The song “Personal” off Star’s album In the Bedroom After the War has got to be one of the most beautiful songs ever. The song is an exchange of replies to personal ads.
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In the first verse you hear the male’s personal ad and then the Caroline’s response to the ad. This is the first instance where you hear the word “heavy” but at first it can be misinterpreted as her being “emotionally heavy” because she was grieving over a loss. The male acts supportive and asks her out for a drink. Caroline is then obviously self-conscious and when he sees her, realizes that heavy must have meant physically and he changes his personal ad at the very end.
This song is probably one of the most under appreciated songs stars has, its just so beautifully and full of depth. The male character has a somewhat mysterious depth that is found in most star songs. He is hidden and mysterious. The female puts herself out there but he is reserved. This song could be looked at other ways as well. Heavy could be emotionally heavy and that is why the guy decided to not go through with the date and hence at the end he asks “is it you or me?” that couldn’t go through with the initial date. Nonetheless this song is beautiful.
Wanted: single F
Under 33
Must enjoy the sun
Must enjoy the sea
Sought by single M
Mrs. Destiny
Send photo to address
Is it you and me?
Reply to single M:
My name is Caroline
Cell phone number here
Call if you have the time
28 and bored
Grieving over loss
Sorry to be heavy
But heavy is the cost
Heavy is the cost
Reply to Caroline:
Thanks so much for response
These things can be scary
Not always what you want
How about a drink?
This ancient club at noon
I’ll phone you first I guess
I hope I see you soon
I never got your name
I assume you’re 33
Your voice, it sounded kind
I hope that you like me
When you see my face
I hope that you don’t laugh
I’m not a film star beauty
I’ll send a photograph
I hope that you don’t laugh
Note to single M:
Why did you not show up?
I waited for an hour
I finally gave up
I thought once that I saw you
I thought that you saw me
I guess we’ll never meet now
It wasn’t meant to be
It wasn’t mean to be
I was sure you saw me
But it wasn’t meant to be
Wanted: single F
Under 33
Must enjoy the sun
Must enjoy the sea
Sought by single M
Nothing too heavy
Send photo to address
Is it you or me?
Is it you or me?
Is it you or me?
Is it you or me?

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